tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8486438361447743324.post4112916973828334393..comments2022-11-24T02:57:40.722-08:00Comments on Invitro Veritas: Things People SayKhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17891984751397130045noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8486438361447743324.post-19035668635858055782009-10-18T12:08:09.333-07:002009-10-18T12:08:09.333-07:00I know the frustration of being on the receiving e...I know the frustration of being on the receiving end of such comments, but your answers made me laugh out loud. They shouldn't, I mean clearly people who say these kinds of things ARE dumb fucks, but it's funny to see it in print anyway. You caused lots of knowing nods with this one!Best When Used Byhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17252417951291793892noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8486438361447743324.post-11488527039685916592009-10-17T13:02:34.759-07:002009-10-17T13:02:34.759-07:00mother nature indeed.
PERFECT
xox
Katemother nature indeed.<br /><br />PERFECT<br /><br />xox<br />KateKatehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12533501052787233233noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8486438361447743324.post-36842270869407631152009-10-17T11:26:56.115-07:002009-10-17T11:26:56.115-07:00Gah! I've got them too here are my responses....Gah! I've got them too here are my responses.<br /><br />The surrogate comment: I don't have problems <br />carrying babies so far, just getting pregnant. <br /><br />Why don't you just adopt: I say, "that's a great idea" and proceed to tell them the cost of adoption, that it can take years to get a baby, the chance of the kid getting taken back by the birth parents, potential side effects of fetal alcohol syndrome, maternal drug abuse, bad genes, etc. Most of them turn white and shut the hell up. It's not like a movie from the 40's folks.<br /><br />Just relax: And how does my relaxing help change the chemistry of my husband's sperm?<br /><br />Maybe God didn't want you...: We'll it's a good thing I don't believe in THAT asshole. <br /><br />Alternate to the "nicer" comment of it being "God's way": I don't really think God is a micro-manager. She's much smarter than that.<br /><br />The "I'm so fertile" crap that I get: Were you trying at 40? I can tell you if we were popping them out at 19, 22, 24, 26, as high as 32 then maybe we'd be "fertile" too. Also it doesn't matter how "fertile" you are, it takes two to tango.<br /><br />I usually end by telling these people that their comments, while meant to be helpful, are the things that make IF'ers cringe. I give them the useful hints like, "That must be very difficult for you" or "Well, I wish you all the best of success." I also let them know what they absolutely shouldn't say to a woman who miscarries "god's plan, etc." (shudder)<br /><br />We hates them, filthy stupid commentses.IF Optimist, then...https://www.blogger.com/profile/11634482448223302535noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8486438361447743324.post-89007271538364641112009-10-17T08:53:47.302-07:002009-10-17T08:53:47.302-07:00Congratulations, sorry I've haven't been f...Congratulations, sorry I've haven't been following too well! I blame it on IF. It screws up everything in my life. <br /><br />Mr.W sounds like the best. And I bet Mr. Momma would like him - they are both "sons of the earth"! <br /><br />Hope you are not feeling too blah, but I know that can be a comfort at this stage anyway. Love the Stupid FP Comments.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8486438361447743324.post-35747992533249100362009-10-16T21:00:39.849-07:002009-10-16T21:00:39.849-07:00Love it! Well said, every single one! Take that,...Love it! Well said, every single one! Take that, dumb fucks! :-)<br /><br />I have one to add:<br /><br />I'm so fertile you just have to blink at me and I'm pregnant. And I love being pregnant so much, that I would be willing to be a surrogate for my friends.<br /><br />What would you say to that, K?Mad Hatterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08262994711680542891noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8486438361447743324.post-55067337719852614572009-10-16T18:47:48.627-07:002009-10-16T18:47:48.627-07:00These are priceless. Your response to the "j...These are priceless. Your response to the "just relax" one cracked me up -- I can't tell you how many times I've thought similar thoughts. <br />Sorry people are being stupid around you with the TTC thing... it's just such a drag.irrationalexuberancehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05772420700972282324noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8486438361447743324.post-52683903851502101492009-10-16T17:26:06.666-07:002009-10-16T17:26:06.666-07:00Gah. #5 is my personal favorite.Gah. #5 is my personal favorite.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8486438361447743324.post-67993811770497226242009-10-16T17:03:51.514-07:002009-10-16T17:03:51.514-07:00HA ha ha LMOA
Yeah, I get the 'just relax'...HA ha ha LMOA<br />Yeah, I get the 'just relax' line about three times a week. Maybe we can just start saying 'fuck off stupid' to whatever questions or comments comes our way? <br /><br />How are you feeling? Doing OK? <br />EBEbhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06674801997007886433noreply@blogger.com